Can I call myself queer for that? If I do, I’m guessing that I would get more interest in online dating from transfolk or people who consider “queer” a selling point. I accept them as women, so I had no problem with the penises. That means I’ve dated some transwomen who still had male genitalia.
If you have a sex or love question you’d like Jera to answer, email DM Jera on Twitter can use the word “queer” in a dating profile? The best term for me is gynophilic.
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